Instead of seeking a quiet moment to yourself, or time for adult talk, make the most of "now." Expecting your toddler to be patient like an adult is asking him to act-out to get your attention.
There are definitely tricks to making the waiting less painful. After a few minutes of "shhh" and "sit still," the parent may be looking for some options that work for toddlers. First, try asking your child to tell you a story, or about something that happened today. Toddlers treasure moments when they are the center of your attention and you are truly listening.
If they are too active to talk, try a distraction. Take the child's mind off the waiting with a story, song, rhyme, bounce on the knee or task. Your child will be thrilled with ANYTHING to do, and you will be happy they are occupied. Some favorite distractions are:
- A sheet of stickers they can apply to your purse or sleeve. (Applying the sticker could be a reward for a some action or service, like identifying colors or letters.)
- A game of "I spy." This is a fun game to play with the camera on your cell phone. They close their eyes, you snap a picture, then they guess where the photo was taken. Zoom in for more challenging matches.
- Tell a story or read from a favorite book.
- Pull out a small toy you save for "quiet time" occasions.
- Offer crayons and paper. Ask them to draw your house or draw a portrait of you. The child's favorite part, of course, is your appreciation of their artwork.
- Keep a sheet of removable window decals handy for a quick diversion.
- A cup of chipped ice and a spoon. Endless entertainment your waiter can offer, for free. Add an empty cup and they can transfer from cup to cup.
- Ask them to slide a penny across the table into your hand. If your child is past the choke-able objects stage, this simple game is readily available.
- Toddlers need to move. If you can do your waiting where there is an open area for running, like an empty hallway, try sending the toddler after a bouncy ball.
- Paper airplanes.
Believe it or not, you will miss these times. Enjoy your adorable little one!